How to Establish Expectations in a Blended Family

How To Establish Expectations In A Blended Family

1. Start the process before you share a home.
   1. This provides time to make changes as you learn.
2. Identify the behaviors you now consider non negotiable.
   1. Discuss expectations as a couple, first.
   2. Then invite the children into the conversation.
      1. Be sure everyone is well rested and stress free before you begin.

• Discuss expectations with your ex-spouse.
  1. Children feel secure when the rules don’t change from house to house.
  2. Agree on bed time, homework expectations, allowance, etc.
  3. Post the expectations in both homes

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